Breast Augmentation?

Ladies only for the obvious. My girlfriend is getting a breast augmentation soon. What changes did you go through when you got yours. Were you happier, did it help your self esteem? Did it make you more distant from your man? Did you get newfound attention that you didn't get before? My girlfriend has a low self esteem and I think this is just what she needs, agree or disagree?

Public Comments

1. If it is low self esteem then that comes from inside and no amount of surgery will make her feel better....it might make her look better in her eyes but she will be the same person inside.
2. I'd disagree, but it shows how influential your girlfriend is on how society views beauty! Unfortunately she'll no longer be unique, but she'll be just like the rest of these women who choose to get this procedure done.
3. I have no idea about her, but my self esteem has never been tied to my breasts. It is tied to being a good, kind person, treating others well, accomplishing a goal, etc. I enjoy getting attention from men sometimes, but that has not been of any major importance since about the age of 24.
4. Honestly, I don't think having bigger breasts will solve her self-esteem issues I think it will just cause more problems. Maybe she's not ready for the attention she would get with them and knowing someone is just interested in you for that tears your self-esteem even more.
5. If self esteem is the issue, bigger breasts wont cure it. Consider this, there will ALWAYS be something we do not like about ourselves. Once she gets the surgery, there will just be something else she doesn't like. I work as a personal trainer and have worked with every type of person out there (well, almost!) and let me tell you something, people that work out and put in real effort to looking good and feeling good NATURALLY, have the most awesome self esteem and do not concern themselves with un-natural forms of self gratification/esteem. I am not knocking your girlfriend, this is just what I have personally observed. If she chooses surgery, PLEASE, do a though check on the doctor performing the surgery. Good luck.
6. You think! Sounds like it is all about you. There are risks with this procedure. How do you think that will make her feel if there is a problem.
7. personally i dont date chicks with boob job! I hate insecurity in women and thats a big sign of it! Dont get me wrong ill hook up with chicks that have em but i wont take one home to mom! I just dont understand in your situation tho! Your attention isnt enough for her so she needs a boob job for other men to gock over her boobs so she can feel better?
8. i strongly disagree. if your girlfriend have a low self esteem, i think she is supposed to work on it rather that tampering the her God giving breast. God created us differently and he knows the reasons why he gave her the kind of breast that she has. Aside this she can have other medical issues after this breast augumentation has been completed. i dont understand why people waste such kind of money in doing unnecessary things like this.
9. yeah she wudnt leave u jst cos her breats. It will increase her self-esteem and more then likely attract men, but it sownds lyk the only person she wants is u cos u r there for her. Yeah it sownds like this is the right think for her aslong as it is what SHE wanted and not u. Because my hubby was pressuring me in2 having boob surgery and saying i should change myself and i just told him 2 get lost because if u r similar to this which i am not saying u r cos i dont no u then this cud b lowering her confidence.
10. Both my sisters had it done and let me tell u they now think their sh*t don't stink. I am not jealous becuz mine are the same size but all real. It did totally boost their self esteem that's for sure. My older sister left the guy she was w/ afterwards to be w/ someone else. They love the attention they get from it. Still to this day they flaunt the twins around, the husbands are not to thrilled about that. It builds their self esteem becuz they get attention from men.
11. I thnk that women who get a boob job need to do it for the right reasons, because they want them not to fix something inside of themselves. If they are trying to give themselves confidence or to boost their self esteem then it will only let them down. You have to find happiness within yourself. You have to love your self just the way you are.
12. My wife had it done about 30 yrs ago she was happy for a wile then it went back to the way it was before, at best it's a temporary fix.
13. I won't date un natural girls>My X had it done just before leaving> worst move I could of made> Thinking they were for me>They felt terrible feeling & the scars like grapefruit half's> she was proud of them>Self esteem ya if that's what you think>Don't forget there like tires they have to be changed in time>Think the price is a lot now wait and see>She will be having fun showing them off>Good luck hope you can deal with the new person>Just my experiences>
14. It usually does boost ones self esteem in the beginning, but after awhile those nasty issues DO come back. WHY? Because NOW, the guys are just slobbering over your BOOBS, not YOU. Talk to any gal who HAS naturally large breasts, and they will tell you it can be VERY annoying to have guys just look at your chest and never even catch your name. ANY surgery has RISKS. I have 3 friends that have done this, and wish they never did now. What your girlfriend REALLY needs, is to learn WHY she feels low about herself and learn how to deal with that, not just run out and pick something she THINKS will do the trick.